Romanticizing your life has been all over social media and for good reason. It’s all about practicing gratitude, mindfulness, and self-love. It’s about appreciating the moment that you’re in, focusing on the present, and being thankful for being where you are right now. It’s such a positive trend. It’s also one that can make daily activities more enjoyable.
One way you can romanticize your life, and show yourself some extra self-care is to take yourself out on dates.
Solo dates don’t just allow you to experience fun things, but they get you knowing yourself even better, too. By being by yourself, you’re in a great position to practice gratitude, mindfulness, and being in the moment. You don’t have to worry about anyone else but yourself. All that matters is that you are enjoying yourself, and what better way to romanticize your life than having fun in the moment you’re in?
If you’re not sure where to start when it comes to going on a solo date, we have you covered. Here are some great solo date ideas that’ll definitely get you romanticizing your life!
Solo Dates To Take Yourself On To Romanticize Your Life
1. Head to the Spa
What’s more relaxing and peaceful than going to the spa? Everything at the spa is made for one, so if you’re nervous about heading out on your own, this is a good option for you. It’ll help you put your mind at ease and really be able to focus on the present.
You’ll come out of it refreshed, too. If there’s no spa near you, or you don’t want to spend the money (we get it – it can be expensive!) you can create an at-home spa. Get yourself some bubble bath, a face mask, a hair mask, and some soothing candles that’ll get you relaxing. Stay home for the evening solo and just pamper yourself!
2. Take a Paint and Sip Class
Almost all neighborhoods have some form of paint and sip class happening, where you have an instructor leading you in how to create a beautiful piece of artwork, all while sipping wine. They’re a chill and easy solo date idea. Plus, there’s just something zen about releasing your creativity, isn’t there?
3. Head to the Bookstore
What’s more romantic than a bookstore?! If you’re a bookworm like I am, you can spend hours in a bookstore or your local library. Before heading over there, grab a cup of coffee or your favorite drink. Walking around and browse all the titles. Pick up a romantic book or one all about self-love!
4. Wander Through a Museum
Looking around a museum can really get your brain working and get you thinking about the artwork you’re looking at.. and even the meaning of life. It’s usually a quiet place for you to enjoy that will also get you reflecting on things.
5. Take a Yoga Class
What better way is there to show your body some love than through exercise? Taking a yoga class is such a great solo date idea because it’s a class where no one really talks to each other and everyone’s mostly focusing on themselves. There’s also yoga combined with meditation, which will really get you in the right headspace of romanticizing your life.
6. Make Yourself a Charcuterie Board
We all love a good charcuterie board, don’t we? But for some reason, we save it for “special” occasions or big hangouts. Well, celebrate yourself this date night and make a charcuterie board filled wit your favorite foods or snacks just for yourself. You deserve to be celebrated, too. Pop open a bottle of champagne, too, to really show yourself some love.
7. Have Dinner at a Fancy Restaurant
Again, why should having dinner at a fancy restaurant only happen on a date with someone else or for a celebration? Take yourself out to that restaurant you’ve been eyeing or that food you have been craving. Not only will you be enjoying delicious food, but you’ll have the time and ambience to take everything in and really think about where you are.
8. Walk Through a Local Garden
When you thin romanticizing your life, do flowers come to mind? They do for me, and I’m sure for many others! Head to your local botanical garden, park, or whatever is closet. Walk around the garden and literally take time to stop and smell the roses. Surrounding yourself with natural beauty is such great self-care. Buy yourself flowers at the end of your solo date, too, so you can bring some of the great date home with you and keep the romanticizing going.
9. Build Your Own Bouquet
If you can’t get to a local garden, build your own bouquet at home! There are virtual flower arranging classes you can take, or you can just totally wing it. Head to your local store, pick up some flowers, and let your creativity run wild by arranging the bouquet to look how you like. Not only will you be enjoying yourself in the moment, but you’ll also be reminded of how great you felt in that moment whenever you look at your bouquet. Be sure to put it in a prominent place!
10. Try a New Coffee Shop
There’s something romantic about just sitting in a coffee shop, sipping on a drink, isn’t there? Take yourself to a coffee shop! It can be your go-to one or a new one. Just keep in mind if it’s your go-to one you run the risk of running into people. Bring your latest read with you, too, if you want. Remember to take time to take in the atmosphere of where you’re at and really savor every sip of your drink.
11. Book a Solo Staycation or Vacation
If you can swing it, why not go all out and take yourself on a staycation or vacation?! Book a hotel with a pool or spa (or both!). Order room service and lounge around in your robe. Or take yourself to the fancy restaurant or lounge on site. Have a bubble bath in your room. Sleep in. It’s ultimate relaxation and ultimate pampering at its finest.
You’ll really be showing yourself self-love and you’ll be sure to come back from your staycation or vacation feeling refreshed, relaxed, and loving life.
What Solo Date Will You Go On?
Taking yourself on solo dates is a beautiful way to nurture your soul, embrace self-love, and add a touch of romance to your everyday life. Whether it’s exploring a new part of town, indulging in a creative activity, or simply enjoying a quiet moment in nature, each experience is an opportunity to connect with yourself and discover the joy in your own company.
These 11 solo dates are designed to inspire you to step out of your comfort zone, treat yourself with kindness, and create memories that are uniquely yours. Remember, you deserve to celebrate yourself and savor the little moments that make life magical. Go ahead, plan that solo adventure, and watch as your world becomes a little more enchanting with each experience.
Romanticizing your life isn’t about grand gestures or expensive outings—it’s about finding beauty and delight in the simple pleasures and treating yourself with the love and attention you deserve. Here’s to you, and the wonderful journey of self-discovery and self-love. Enjoy every moment of your solo dates and let them remind you just how special you truly are.
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About the Author
Michelle graduated from Fordham University with a Bachelors of Arts '13 and a Master of Arts '14. She's currently working in corporate America with a side of freelance writing. She wants you to learn from her experiences and mistakes so your 20s can be your best decade. When she's not working, she's likely planning her escape to a tropical island.